Have you ever experienced Unconditional Love?

Unconditional Love
Is unconditional love difficult? Well, many will find it difficult to answer. There are many facets to it as well. Complete love and love just for the sake of it are very different. To know if you have unconditional love for the other person is easy. For example, you ignore things about your lover that you do not like.

Your lover throws the wet towel on the bed and even after telling him/her umpteen times, all you do is hang the towel to dry every time the wet towel is thrown. Well, what is that? You do not yell, scream or shout! You simply accept the person the way he/she is and live with it.

Well, that I would say is unconditional love. You simply do not change the person, but accept the nature of the person. Love unconditionally no matter what, for love is a strange and beautiful thing.

Unconditional Love

Many times you hear this phrase of unconditional love. Have you ever experienced it? If not, just take home a pet and within days, you will know what unconditional love is. These pets will not love you just because you feed them or give them a place to sleep.

They will love you even if you do not feed them or kick them from time to time or leave them for a few days. They will still play with you or cuddle you near the feet and make sounds so that you pay attention to them.

Well, that is not the right way to treat someone, but still, the pets do not seem to mind, because they know that somewhere within, the master loves them and feeds them.

Unconditional love comes from within when you know that you love the other person no matter what. You have to convey your love to the person involved. The message is very important, which can automatically reciprocate your feelings.

Those small little sacrifices go a long way in bonding your love forever. Giving support when most needed is another way you can strengthen your relationship. Connecting in the natural way is important if you want the relationship to last.

The most important thing in this world is to learn to give out love, and let it come in ~ Morrie Schwartz (Tweet this)

Unconditional love does not grow without talking or showing. It needs to be shown in various ways. You have to compliment your love wherever necessary or simply without reason too! Call when you think of him/her, it can be many times a day. Texting during lunch hours or during closing time with funny quotes or silly talks can convey that you think of them.

Acknowledge the contribution that they make towards the relationship in every little thing like cleaning the house, doing laundry, money, cooking, or simply loving! Showing gratitude at least once a week will make your love grow.

Unconditional Love is  a very powerful feeling. Love because you are grateful for the things someone has done for you. Love because someone needs you.  Love even when it is difficult, even when your mind tells you that you should not.

Just be Yourself

Artificial love is not going to take you anywhere. It will come out eventually. You should show who you are and how you feel about things. This way the connecting becomes stronger and you understand each other. Spending time with each other is another important factor when you want to grow in love and strengthen the relationship or make it extraordinary.

Caring and sharing is another important aspect that should be followed with interest. Just keep yourself updated with what is happening in the other person’s life and discuss about things that are important. This might not sound like the perfect thing, but in the long run you know who to rely on when things get difficult.  Love unconditionally for the happiness and inner peace it brings us.

The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this:  Love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love ~ Stephen Kendrick (Tweet this)

Unconditional love is affection without any limitations. This is how love gets its name and the bond gets perfect when you share important things and love unconditionally even when you know that the other person is not so perfect even then you find it easy to love. So, Love Unconditionally and  find your love for life!

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Vandana Singhal writes extensively on science, technology, health, and travel. Vandana has a degree in science and is artistic in nature.

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