Most people want to look their best and attractive in a group or when they are with their best friend, or even when they are alone. And why not? Looking attractive and attracting people is not a crime! Everybody is beautiful, it is just that they simply need a little bit of grooming and they are ready to show off!
But I think there is more to being attractive. You might be wearing the best designer clothes, the best makeup, accessories etc, still people do not stay with you. Why? You are of course beautiful and can easily find another attractive person to fall in love with you. But many times physical attractions are not enough to earn you friends, colleagues or a partner. It is you . . . your true self . . . your inner beauty that will win people.
It is often perceived that those perfect looks, that beautiful physique or figure, and that lovely hair will be the best tool. The truth you need to know is that, instead, it is what you think, your thoughts about people around you and how happy people feel when they are around you that matter.
You have to know that instant connection that you can make while you are in company of others. The right kind of bond that you can instantly make with people is with the kind of person you are. So let us check what is that you need to be most attractive.
1. Portray Yourself
It is important to show people who you are. You do not have to be artificial when it comes to appreciating people or being considerate because if you are not you, people will eventually know that you are trying to hide yourself behind those words or acts. It is easy for people to accept you the way you are. So just remember faking will never pay off.
2. Try to Listen to People
There is a kind of attraction in people who listen to you. Why, there are people who start their own story when someone is in need of a friend who will listen to his pain. Well, you certainly do not need to look attractive to people here. You need to console people . . . a few words of comfort . . . no judgment is required here. If you listen, you will definitely seem like you are a true friend. True listening is what makes you attractive.
3. Be Confident
Yes your confidence makes you attractive. People look up to you. At the same time, you will love yourself. Smile when you see someone and this attitude will help people come close to you. Instead if you ignore people and do not greet them, this might make them stay away from you. A confident and smiling face will definitely win friends and special ones as well. The right kind of attitude and positive thoughts will always help to keep the smile lingering on.
4. Do not Brood
This is last thing you need when you want to look attractive. If you worry or feel sorry for yourself, you will definitely not attract people. This trait, if it stays with you for long, will definitely not make you glow. Complaining about life and talking about the negativities will show on your face. It will definitely decrease the glow and show stress lines, which is definitely not attractive.
5. Believe in Yourself
Do not expect others to tell you that you are attractive. You should believe and feel attractive. Positivity always brings out the best in you. Since each and every person is attractive, then why not feel it as well? Superficial makeup and dressing up will stay just for a moment. But after a little while it is only you and your inner beauty that will make you look attractive.
While you are checking out the latest fashion trends, check out how many qualities you have that will enhance your beauty. Inner beauty is the quality that one has to have to stay young and beautiful. The beauty looked at with the eyes doesn’t last forever. Inner beauty is representative of good deeds and kindness.
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched . . . but are felt in the heart. ~ Helen Keller (Tweet this)