Celebrating Womanhood

Celebrate Womanhood
Well, am a tad late for this topic, but better late than never. This Women’s day I saw Facebook and Whatsapp filled with Women’s day wishes. So, were the celebrations. My friend went out to lunch, someone else to dinner, someone else got a Spa package as a gift from her husband.

Wishes all around, Woman is this, Woman is that.. Just made me wonder, what is it that we are celebrating? Celebrate womanhood. Being born as a woman is a gift from God in itself.

Pledge to yourself to respect woman’s dignity and give her the desired space in life.

Woman in Varied Forms

I’ve seen this time and again, be it celebrities or just the next door neighbor. The woman is often considered as playing multiple roles – She is a daughter, a sister, a girlfriend, a lover, a wife, a daughter-in-law, a sister-in-law, a mother, an aunt, a granny. And with these multitudes of roles you might want to add her function-based roles, she is a friend, philosopher, teacher, nanny, nurse, housemaid, entrepreneur, manager, business executive and many many more.

While today’s woman is juggling between various roles, she is still struggling to find her footing.

On one side you will see a Sudha Murthy who chose subtler professions over a fulfilling IT career and on the other a Indira Nooyi running giant corporations. On one side you will see Sonia Gandhi in a pivotal position of power and the other a Nirbhaya, oppressed and violated.

The average woman is still juggling housework, motherhood with that of corporate positions. The average woman still gets off a bus where she is manhandled rather than raise voice for her rights. The average woman still gets left out of social bonding over a fag or a pint and probably gets left out of crucial decisions as well.


Celebrate womanhood.  Take this opportunity to reach out to a woman who has had a great impact in your life.

Oppression in Women

Oppression is more than not saying NO. It could also mean excessively saying YES. As is the fate of many women who wear multiple hats in today’s world.

What is a woman in today’s life? Does she command the respect that Draupadi then craved? Is her life any better than the thousands of oppressed women who breathed their last under the menace called “Dowry”?

Is it the modern woman who rubs shoulders with those of the privileged gender only to be left out of discussions had over a cigarette? Is she the Demi Moore of “Disclosure” oozing sensuality? Is she the Mallika Sherawat who is the central feature of all the sex jokes, just because she chooses to be portrayed sensually?

Oppression still continues and as long as it continues, women will continue to suffer.

Mahatma Gandhi’s dream of a free India where women can walk free of mental bondage continues to suffer. Today’s woman is walking the path in equally strong strides alongside a man.

She is equally smart, equally educated, equally confident, equally capable, equally skilled, equally poised. Yet when a man listens to a woman at home or values her opinion, he is hen-pecked. When a woman asks her man’s opinion, she is doing the right thing by seeking advice. Yet the other way around does not hold water. Let’s talk about the physical abuse. Domestic Violence, Rape, Dowry deaths, Moral Policing etc etc etc.

There are varied forms of physical abuses that a woman still tolerates. And to think that once upon a time, women were worshipped. Being a female is a matter of birth, Being a woman is a matter of age, Being a lady is a matter of choice

Celebrating Womanhood

So, what exactly are we celebrating on March 8th again? Are we celebrating progress? Are we celebrating the roles of a woman? Are we celebrating the various functions? Time to think about what is the essence of a woman.

She is just that – A Woman – A sweet little child who loves pink, that daring adolescent who tries her mother’s cosmetics while no one is looking, that aspiring young damsel who is as worried about her studies as she is about the latest fashion trends, that shy little bride who grabs her husband’s hand while yearning to earn respect in her new home, that experimenting parent who cares for her child like no one else and that confident entrepreneur who can shake the world (at least her own). She is just a woman.

Celebrate womanhood. In any age, a woman is just that – not to be judged, not to be toyed, not to be belittled but to be cherished, to be admired, to be loved.

The day that men start to think of women in their entirety, we will not need a day to celebrate womanhood. Are you that man who can view women in the right spirit? Are you that woman who can demand to be viewed in that spirit? If yes, welcome to the world that Gandhiji dreamt of.

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About the Author

Supriya Mothay is a Chartered accountant by profession, with a passion to write. Being an amateur poet and creative writer, she now blogs on topics on finances, lifestyle and mythology. She likes to relate little philosophies to life and has a capability to break down trivial issues at the granular level and arrive at innovative solutions.

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