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Words can Make or Break You

July 15th, 2012    by Vandana Sehgal

by Vandana Sehgal on July 15, 2012

Words are instrumental in expression of our thoughts and feelings. Words of love, hatred, anger, happiness or jealousy leave a deep impact on our life. Small words like Om and Maa have a much deeper impact than imagined. The moment child utters Maa, a mother’s world changes forever, a stream of happiness flows in her heart and life.

Om, the powerful word has the strength of whole universe. Sit quietly with closed eyes and start chanting Om. Peaceful vibrations start pervading in the body and charge the environment with positive energies.

Positive words improve life whereas negative words ruin. Therefore, it is very important to be careful while conversing because words covey a lot.

“Handle them carefully, for words have more power than Atom bomb.” Pearl Strachan

words Words can Make or Break You

Words reflect thoughts

Success in career, relation, friendship or any stream in life is significantly dependent upon the usage of words. Furthermore words are reflection of thoughts developed in our mind. Words supported by thought shape our destiny. As well said:

“Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words,

Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions,

Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits,

Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character,

Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny.”

- From: Freethechildren.org

Words have the power to heal

Words are empowered to heal, as words control thoughts, use them to create a deep impact. While words can facilitate healing, they also hamper them, use them intelligently.

Mrs. Wilson was suffering from a rare eye disease. Her doctors declared it to be incurable and that she can get blind. Her friend suggested consulting a crystal therapist who asked her to share her life experiences. After ten minutes the therapist suddenly stopped her and said, “Mrs. Wilson, have you noticed, in ten minutes, you have repeated fifteen times ‘I can’t see’.”

She used to say “l hate to see” before so many things, like ‘I hate to see the way the world is going.’ This was truly an eye opening for her. He suggested her to switch off those words and add ‘I can see’. Now years later she has perfect vision. This is the healing impact of words.

Words have deep impact on our life. Dr.Emoto has proven it scientifically. He proved that the actual structure of water molecule is changed in the presence of different words and phrases. If words really do affect water than we are not only emotionally affected by words but physically as well, as a major part of our body is made up of water.

Kind words have the power to change life

Yes, the kind words can change life. I have experienced it in my life.

My mother-in-law always blessed me from the core of her heart. She used to say, “May God bless you with all the worldly things and luxuries in abundance. You will see one day it will come true.” Today although she is no more alive, but her kind words truly blessed me.

Whenever God gifts me the comforts of life, I feel as if she is all around me.

“Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are endless.” Mother Teresa

Never use negative words, they tear apart

Negative words are the result of hatred, anger, jealousy – in a nut shell, negative emotions. Their use affects us as well as the people around us. Every word we say somewhere creates an impact. Choose words with care, wisdom and love. Let your bitter words not be the cause of rendering pain to you and others.

While cooking one day my mother got her hand burnt. I requested to help her in daily chores. As I was kid she did not allow. Out of helplessness I said, “Let your other hand also burn, then only you will allow me.” Though uttered unintentionally those words pained her a lot.

I immediately realized my mistake and apologized but nearly about fifty year passed, these words still pierce my heart. The words said in anger leave a bitter taste. Words once spoken cannot be reversed no matter how unintentional they were.

Words can Make or Break you – final words

Different words have different impact like:

Words of encouragement, unleashes a winner

Words of motivation, strengthens a fighter

Words of love, magnifies a life

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amit patodia September 21, 2012 at 12:57 am

IT IS ONE OF BEST EXAMPLE OF WORDS THAT IS SHOWN IN THIS ARTICLE I LIKE THAT

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